尘埃落定

阶段性汇报

我自去年开始,又因为疫情的原因,为期将近一年的考研,昨天终于结束了。

尘埃落定,感觉轻松、愉悦。

漫长而焦灼的过程,特别是复试的前后几天,虽不至于失眠,但也因为压力而额头冒了痘痘。

“简直影响面试时的形象。”当时我看着镜中的自己说。

回顾这一路,有不少经验教训。

在初试的备考阶段,原本是可以更有针对性的,如果当时这么做了,我相信最后的成绩是能提个几分的。

在复试的准备上,事实证明我还是犯了方向性的错误,我所做的大量准备,最后都没用上,因为人家完全就不考这些。

我想考研不仅是知识性的考试,更多是技巧性的考试,要扬长避短,有所侧重。

不讳言,我这次考试能成功,运气占了很大很大的成分,主要是复试上。本来按照全年学校的招生计划,和我面试表现出的“实力”,我在进复试后,是完全没有实力和机会逆袭成功的。

感谢宁大悄磨叽儿地就扩招了,感谢宁大法学院的老师们,放过了在复试(专业面试这一环节,我真的一道题也不会答)上表现糟糕的我。

马上就进入大学毕业的第十一个年头了,我的人生又有了新的进步。说实话还是考得太晚了,我应该在大学毕业工作三年后,就去追求学历的进步的,那说不定这会子我都读博士了(这句划掉…)。现在的我,特别是有了家庭有了孩子之后,会给我的继续学业带来一定的困扰。所以还是希望家人能够强有力地支持我。

人生有没有规划,是混混过,还是有目标的过,是很不一样的。这件事对我来说总归是值得兴奋的,弥补了我当年没有继续升学的遗憾。能够在离开象牙塔十年后回炉重造,继续提升自己,我很开心。

我的专业面试表现,又泼了我一盆冷水,我需要在口头表达能力上付出巨大的努力,这一块其实一直是我学习,或者说综合能力上,非常大的短板。我一直是知道的,只不过每次意识到之后,每次都轻飘飘地放过了自己。这也是我今后要提高的地方。 学无止境,我要做一个终身学习的人。要做向日葵,永远迎着太阳。


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